
What you can do to help stop domestic violence
PROTECT YOURSELF:
- From emotional and physical abuse in your own relationships.
- With a personal support network; friends, neighbors, minister/priest, family, co-workers, and domestic abuse advocates.
BREAK THE SILENCE:
- Demand accountability from the system and from the individual perpetrators.
- Listen to and believe women and children.
- Look for warning signs that a woman or child is in trouble.
- Support battered women's advocacy programs and/or shelters, sexual assault crisis centers, and other grass roots organizations fighting violence.
HONOR AND RESPECT SURVIVORS OF ABUSE:
- Honor individual women and children in every step of their struggle to escape abuse.
- Respect each survivor's timing and process in the journey of healing.
TAKE A STAND AGAINST EVENTS AND MATERIALS THAT:
- Minimize battering (such as jokes about "keeping her in line").
- Confuse sex and violence.
- Demean women and children, and, in doing so, diminish men.
SUPPORT EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS THAT:
- Teach non-violent ways to resolve conflict.
- Distinguish between sex and violence.
- Recognize the connections between violence against women and the sympathetic oppressions of racism, sexism, ageism, able-bodyism, anti-Semitism, militarism, and homophobia.
ORGANIZE COMMUNITY ACTION:
- Plan a fund-raiser for a battered women's advocacy program to raise needed funds and educate the community about available services.
- Hold a candlelight vigil or ceremony to remember the victims of domestic abuse, to honor the survivors, and to celebrate those working to end violence against women and children.
- Promote religious services that speak out against the use of violence in the home.
- Present a school/college/university program that focuses on prevention curriculum and teach peace.
- Ask librarians and bookstores to set up displays of literature about domestic violence.
- Keep issues before the public. Write letters to newspapers; perhaps editorials or comments to print media as well as TV and radio.
- Organize inter-agency activities with police departments, PTA's, community colleges/universities, women's clubs, girl and boy scouts, other social and civic groups or human service agencies.
- Have a speaker, or facilitate discussion, at a Brown bag lunch.
- Donate time, used cell phones, money, clothing, furniture, hygiene and personal care products.
DEMAND LEGISLATIVE ACTION THAT WILL:
- Increase funds for existing programs to continue or expand their services.
- Designate funds for new services or special projects.
- Support legislation that enforces existing statutes to protect battered women and their children.
- Create services that are linguistically and culturally appropriate.
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